I AM TOO FAR FROM HOME

      Just wanted to share some special feelings and thoughts on this Rakshabandhan with you all.
I  received one of the precious gift form my sis.And couldn't wait to tell you, " I am so lucky".

      Really I am too far from Home, that's what came to my mind When I gone through this letter from my sister.
Love you and miss you all on each day.

Letter

Dear Panku Bhaiyya,

I never ask for miracles
But today just one would do
To see the front door open and
suddenly you walk through
Remembering you is easy
I do it everyday
And missing you is something
That will never go away.
I wish I could see you
for just a little while
I wish I cold hug you
And see your lovely smile
But wishing gets us nowhere
And longing is in vain
So I will hold you in my heart
Until we meet again.

                     ...................... Yogita, Neha, Bhavna, Sonam

Just Because Sunny Said

Sometimes it just feels to write something, So I do it. But this time just because Sunny said . He suggested to ‘write about myself’ in my blog for others persons who will read it. (If there will be any, I am hopeful, like always) And they will come to know about what The Bongar really is? And Who the Myself really is?


Ab khudke muh se kya tariff karu apni?, Isliye sach hi bolunga.

I am, what I am!

Many people say this. But in my case I am still not who I really am. I am fighting a fight with me. To do anything that can be and should be done the way myself want to do. And not the way The Bongar is doing. And the journey of  ‘The Bongar’ will end the day myself will win this ding-dong. And my struggle is just to achieve ‘what I really can be.’

Whatever the  life I spent till day, I found out that it’s the struggle for finding me and standing in way for The Bongar that is really draining out me completely. Sometimes it just feel like giving up. But MYSELF again bounce back and says “Chad gai he tuze, Kal subah bat karenge.”

On other hand The Bongar is solid, He is absolutely unpredictable. You can never guess what he is upto. Even he also can never guess. He never thinks, I sometime quite enjoy being him. But problem is he is not that tough to be myself. And Myself is not that tough to be myself all the time. So it always goes like this. Sometimes I am Bongar sometimes I am Myself.

So do not bother yourself for what this Bongar is and who this myself is. Let them be what they are. And I guarantee that You will be the first person that I will tell, If I ever come to know about it.

Bye then till my next post……..

Make Them Laugh

This is about a book read and understood by me

Make Woman Laugh
By Martin Merrill

I found the book surprisingly good. And I am happy that accidently i logged in on desibbrg site and seen this book and then read it too. Yup it proves accidents are not bad all the times.

Now talking about book and massage given by author.

Martin has proved himself that he is man, He is a man indeed but he proved that he is a man of his words by telling regarding making them laugh and then proving by doing it throughout book itself. To my surprise it is not telling you how to make them laugh but also helps in staying happy regardless of the situations. I have experienced while reading this that unless until you think funny u wont be able to behave like one. Its all about law of attraction as stated by the book THE Secret .

Definitely you might be thinking the person who is appreciating this book so seriously how he can have learned anything from this book. Ohh you are right then. Yaar mera blog he much to hatke milega. And you were suppose to laugh on that. By the way above will be the only serious paragraph in this entire document. (Hopefully)

Once there was a question in my mind " why still there is no girlfriend of mine?" and this question was haunting me like anything. So I asked my beloved frined Neelu about this. And he said yaar, Cycle chalani sikhni thi to kya kiya?,
I said: chalana suru kiya.
And I got the answer. Actully In our life too. The biggest question used to accompany their answers also. Like If i wanted to have a girlfriend,

Its simple start looking for one. But some part of question remains over their. Once u found out, to whom should u approach. You should care about how?

And their comes use of this book it tells everything about starting and and then carrying it out in the way. And I am happy he had not told about ending it. Thats the biggest untold teaching by Mr. Merill, Never start anything with thinking how to end it. OHHHH

It seems my hopes are not working well for me. (Too serious line.)

You know For what peoples, this is book is really useful? People like us who works on the principle of Rocket. Not that we aim for the sky, But we dont start untill our ass is on fire. (Courtesy : Fukat’s Inbox) Fukat is my mobile phone.

What Had I like the most In This Book?

The book itself. Because it is about the subject jiska overview bhi muze kabhi pata nahi tha. And this book has told me the total theory with some practicals too. So this book start like. If you wanted to have them. First approach them. Mr. merill have given some punch line in help on this, And I think these are really good and surely will work. Though I havent used them yet. But I am hopeful. My favorite is….

Hi, Remember me.

She: No

Them come again after minute.

Hi, Remember me now.
"Do you belive in love at first sight. Or i will have to walk over to you again."

Then after As you came to know each other well. Then I will tell you afterwards.
Actually Boss I am not getting paid for this. So see you later. (Luch Time)

So finally the later has come. And I am ready to write a letter. (Kamal ispe bhi has diye. Boss Dr. se ilaj karao)

Vese recently INDIA tv news dikha rahi thi ke , Faishwarya rai has adopted a son.

(Lagta he Fabhishek par Faran johar ke dostana ka jyada asar pada he.)

And when boy asked her for milk.

Bechari Faish Boli, Beta dudh nahi aata.

Baccha: mat pila, atleast dikha to de.

Haso jorse haso, kamino, Bachha dudh ki botal dikhane ke liye kahe raha tha.
so you might be thinking, Ke ab Faish ka Mr. meril ke kitab se kya relation he.

(Actually muze bhi nahi pata, Fukat ko Subah SMS aaya tha, socha aapko bhi suna du.)



Where were we?

Approaching a Girl.



The key is to stand up, walk and talk to them.

Atleast you can say " Madam ji Idea ki ad kar raha tha." " Walk and Talk ,Walk and Talk".

Please Galiya mat do, AAj ka din bahot boaring tha yar. I cant help.

Vese after reading book by Mr. Merill I talked about it to my friend Hoho. Now what kind of a name that is you might be thinking. I would suggest not to think. You will have to come to L.A to come to understand this.

So after listnening to me, he was feeling too confident, energetic, hopeful, aspirant, wannabee (Just check out, is that a word?) and confident, That he straightway walked to a girl standing front of us and directly said to her

"I love you"

Girl: Tamij se baat karo, bevkuf . (hmmm Ab ye tamij kaha milegi)

Hoho bola: Namste behenji , I love you.

Now please dont pull your hairs. I told u I really had a very bad day. And you can see a Proof that I am not lying.

Ok, bhai log,

CNN chai pine bula rahe he. Jana padega. bade jo thehere. See you later.

And dont worry I won’t bring some letter this later.

I told you I really had a very bad day.

I cant help.

byeeeeee

Sometimes Walk Fast

     Many people says, " We can guess about the persons attitude and his mind set just by little observing how he walks. Haven't you felt sometime boring, like doing nothing and seating idle. And that time you don't even want to do something that will cheer you up. Many people advice to busy yourself in some work so that your mind will be diverted and you will get out of that state, Might this can work for other buddies, but hasn't worked for me. I am trying something new this time. And I would suggest you to give a try to that, You don't have to go for any extraordinary task. Just walk fast, For whatever you are up to, Even if you are going for a  tea, Walk little fast than your normal speed. Whatever may be the reason you were upset about, Try this and walk fast. I don't no the reason behind it, But the reason for which you were upset will not haunt you that much. Its working for me.
     Someone said that the " Best way to escape from a problem is to solve it." So you would ask ' how walking fast will solve the problem?'.
     No walking fast will not solve any problem. But walking fast will give opportunity to neutralize that tension because of which you are upset and thereafter you can deal with problem from new angle.
     This walking fast also has some other advantages like, First its good for your health.Secondly when you walk fast it seems that you are busy and in  hurry, so it will have good impression of yours on your boss. So this can help you with your appraisal.
     So try this out, might prove helpful for another Bongar like me.
     OK, Enough Gyan for today, See you later. byeeeee

What I Think When I Do Not Think?

        It is always uncertain and mystic; The feeling of not feeling to do anything is just like my boss, always standing before me from nowhere. And I always thinks “Ab ye kahase aa gaye?”, And moreover he will stick too long, just like my feeling of not feeling. I think ‘why this happens so many time when we have so much to do and we dont know what to do and how to do it or whether we should do it or not’. Now a days this feeling of not feeling has imbibed to me in such a way that it can be described best by that slogan I read on Suresh’s T shirt.


“ My shadow is my graffiti”
which can be told as
“ Not feeling is graffiti of my feeling”

Isn’t it is something interesting and mysterious and confusing. Think what I am going through right now when I don’t feel anything or just feel something that is not felt by anything.
Just don’t get yourself confused because of what I do not feel. Just think about what you are feeling write now rather right now .

This not feeling state was once very well described by Sir Leonardo Da vVnci while writing down in his Famous Notebook , It was like this.....

“Amid the vastness of the things among which we live the existance of nothingness holds the first place the, and its function extends over the things with no existence, and its essence, as regards time, lies precisely between the past and the future, and possesses nothing of the present. This nothingness has the part equal to the whole, and the whole to the part, the divisible to the indivisible; and the product of the sum is the same whether we divide or multiply, and in addition as in subtraction; as is proved by arithmeticians by their tenth figure which represents zero; and its power has not extension among the things of nature. ”
Now i know it is quite impossible to tell that what on the earth he was trying to say, but I sensed some not feeling in that.
Whether this not feeling is something similar to Non sense?

I would say ‘No’ until you make out something from it. For example something like this document.

On other hand NON SENSE also has great hidden potential in it which was timely underestimated and neglected. Like, Nonsense always has some sense in it, at least for whom who does that. Doing nonsense means not thinking about what others are thinking or may think about you . It needs a great courage to stand against the world and face it alone. Doing nonsense always bless you with the smile that a child carry on his face. Doing nonsense always allow you to laugh on you. Doing nonsense always gives you a satisfaction that at least you are doing something. Its this Non-Sense only which itself contain Sense which is Not visible by others. Doing Nonsense is those who do not have a second hand thinking. Like who wear something that others will appreciate. Who drive some vehicle which others will value. Who So something that other will proud of. So when they will live for themselves? And how can they live for themselves while they are using other brain to think about what they do. Yes Non-Sense gives that opportunity to think and act on your own, For you and you only. That’s the gift that nonsense Gives.

So on this ground Nonsense offers a lot than Not feelingness, But this Not feelingness cannot be underestimated,

As sometimes this not feelingness only give birth to Nonsense. As In case of this Document. Because sometimes When you are in a state of not feelingness and you do nothing, The only and quick way to get out of that state is doing nonsense. Doing something that doesn’t really has a sense, which you will be doing just for the sake of doing. Writing such document will also do.

So this is what I do, when I do not do anything.

This is what I think, When I do not think.
This is what I feel, When I do not feel.